Saturday, February 2, 2008
So, This post is a little out of the ordinary. It's about a certain term that I've been hearing far too often these days.... Lady's man. What does this really mean? A man that prides himself on being good with the lady's? Well, what does that mean for the lady's? I'm not sure if guys think that girls want someone who is great with words and has all the right "moves", but I must say that I don't. I would hate to speak for women in general. I don't know what all women want, but I am sure that there are other women who feel the same way I do. I feel a need to speak out for those women. I for one don't want a "lady's man". I remember hearing many times that people who do too much partner exchanging before marriage have a hard time staying with one person once married. I believe that the same philosophy applies to this. If a man creates his entire identity off of being a pathalogical flirt then when he finds the one... How the heck is this woman supposed to know? The answer is, she won't. Then if he does decide to commit as far as marriage (very unlikely), then how is he going to stay committed. Once a cheater always a cheater, and once a flirt always a flirt. I don't know about all the other women out there. But I must say, I do not want to be legally bound to a pathalogical flirt. The games have to end one day. So, Why not choose the high road today?